人生の目標がない？好きな事が分からない？そんな時はこの質問をしてみよう

昔、ある知り合いの人に突然、こんな質問をされました。

「今まで生きてきた人生の中で、一番楽しかった瞬間を3つ挙げてみて」

楽しそうな質問なので、私は色々な場面を思いだしながら、3つの楽しかったことを上げました。

皆さんも、ここで一度止まって、楽しかった3つの場面を思い出して、書いてみて下さい。

どうして楽しかったのか、その理由も書いてみて下さいね。

書けましたか？

では、その3つに共通することは何ですか？

例えば、私の答えは、

１．アメリカにホームステイした時、
理由：ホームステイしたアメリカ人、一緒に行った日本人のグループで毎日一緒にいてワイワイ楽しかった。

２　スピーチクラブで優勝した時
理由：喜びを仲間と分かち合えた

３　ボランティアをしていた時
理由：ボランティア仲間と語り合えることができた

私の場合, 共通することは、「仲間と一緒」ということです。

これは、正直自分でもびっくりしました。

私は一人でいることが好きだと思っていて、人といると疲れるし、旅行なんかも一人旅が多いし、、、

だから共通することを見つけた時に、意外な自分を発見した感覚がありました。

確かに、一人は好きだけど、人生で楽しかったー！と思える瞬間は、やはりグループの中にいて、仲間と何かを分かち合っている瞬間なんだなと思い、私が人生で楽しく有意義に過ごすには、この「仲間意識」は避けて通れないものなんだと思っています。

私は、色んな人にこの質問をしましたが、自分とは違う答えが返ってきて、あ～みんな違うんだな～と思い、面白いです。

そして、一人が好きなようで、心の奥にある私は仲間と一緒につながることを望んでいるんだなと知っているので、何か新しい事をする時にも、そこを外さないようにしています。

皆さんも、本当の自分は何が好きなのか、何を求めているのか、発見して、人生の目標を言つけるのに役立ててみて下さい。

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